Jobe’s WotY 2019: Grind

Exploring my chosen word, did you know that Nike Grind uses recycled materials, Girls Who Grind Coffee has a super cool online store, Startup Grind is for entrepreneurs, Grinds coffee company makes a caffeinated tobacco chew alternative,  Grind D&D designs websites and apps, 4 of 6 color options for Skullcandy’s Grind Wireless Headphones are sold out, and Find Your Grind is all about exploring your passion to discover your ideal career? Just a slim few of the “grinds” all over the internet.

NOW! Have you picked your word yet? No? THAT’S OK, here’s some help!!!

Susannah Conway has made her Find Your Word 2019 workbook available, so be sure to check that out. She’s fantastic. The Goal Chaser gives some pointers on how to pick a word and a list of 300+ potentials.

Wanna see who else is talking about WotY? Check out: Joanne Fink, Shalagh Hogan, Christy Tending, Marilyn Bousquin, and Jane. Brené Brown chose a WotY last year, wonder what her new pick will be!

Once you’ve decided, commit to your choice:
My One Word #myoneword
One Word 365 #oneword365

And just a reminder, anyone can take the One Hundred Happy Days #100happydays challenge starting any day you choose.

Much Love,


Word of the Year!

I’m working on my Susannah Conway packet from the previous year and going through days 1, 2, 3, 4, and 5 on the way to selecting a word for the year; I’m jotting notes on paper and on the computer and diligently thinking deep thoughts. Then I happen to look down at my netbook and see my latest Nanowrimo sticker, which reads “time to write.” It is, isn’t it. It’s time. Time to make time to write. Write now, right now.

My forever-issue is that I’m terrible with consistency. I can do big colorful bursts of new happy fun fun pizzazz, but my habit always runs out and I’m left in a field of wildflowers wondering when and where it was I went off the tracks. So I go into a stream of consciousness jotting jag, flipping through the best “motivational quotes” Google images can throw at me. Trying to get to the core of what it is I want to do with my year, how I want to focus my energy:

Repeat. Try again. Restart. Begin again. Keep going. Keep on keepin’ on. Be brave. Reach for the stars. “Make it so.” Persist. Persevere. Stay the course. Hold fast. Be stubborn. Hang tough (you are strong enough). KEEP ON. “Stay on target!” Keep on striving. STRIVE. Fail better. “Pain is a doorway.” Failure is a doorway? “Good things happen when you go for it.” Do it, just do it. (Yesterday you said today.) In for a penny, in for a pound. Give it your all. “Find what you love and let it kill you.” Work hard. Percolate! Commit to the page. Do the work. GRIND.

And that’s the word that resonates like a gong, and I feel YES in response to this discovery. I want to work hard. I want to keep going when the going gets tough. I want to cut the crap (of excuses why I’m not writing; of excess words from my writing). I want to put my shoulder to the wheel, nose to the grindstone, and make something more focused, more honed, as a result.



verb (used with object), ground or (rare) grind·ed; grind·ing.
  1. to wear, smooth, or sharpen by abrasion or friction; whet.
verb (used without object), ground or (rare) grind·ed; grind·ing.
  1. to be polished or sharpened by friction.
  2. Informalto work or study laboriously (often followed by away).
  3. Digital Technology(in a video game) to perform a monotonous task repeatedly in order to advance a character to a higher level or rank. 

related words for grind

reduce; task, routine, groove